13 Very Honest Men Reveal the One Thing That Makes Them Marry You

It’s no surprise that men and women are wired differently when it comes to relationships and marriage, but it’s not as different as we think. It’s not that men do NOT want to get married, it’s that they don’t want to marry someone just because they are a certain age, nor are worried what others will say.

Even in this day and age, most men feel it is their responsibility to provide for their family. It’s an emotional burden that they choose-not because they are forced to, but because they want to, and all they expect in return is support and encouragement.

Men are insecure, too. They are worried that they aren’t making it in life-not just in the work force but also at home. Most men have not been raised to be vulnerable, so sometimes what they need is some positive assertion that’s genuine and honest. All men want to feel appreciated.

A Harvard survey showed that married men are healthier than men who have never been married, divorced, or a widower.

Their eyes will always wander, as visual temptation is their weakness, and how far they want to take that is their choice. But most men that I spoke to said they want to get married, and they will not settle until they find a woman who has that ONE thing.